Psalm 68:5-6a

Psalm 68:5-6a “A Father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families……”

James 1:27

James 1:27 “Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.”

Saturday, July 26, 2014

TWO MONTHS HOME


 Two months home and we're on a roll.  We just returned from our first family vacation, just the seven of us.  We spent the week at a Lake House near Rough River.  A friend has been so generous to share her piece of heaven on earth with us!  It went smashingly.  Everyone slept well, the excitement for new things was at an all time high.  Both Littles went tubing.... TWICE!  Couldn't believe it.  Elizabeth seemed more the thrill seeker but it was hard to get good pictures.  Their faces were priceless when we first got on the boat.  The look of terror, "what are we getting ourselves into" and "I'm not sure how this is going to end" are two expressions you might heave read on their faces :)  But after we got going and they saw everyone was having fun, they were quick to enjoy.

Both kids continue to progress well in all areas.  I'd say one of the biggest challenges is sibling rivalry between Elizabeth and Levi.  They also spur one another on though, so there is some benefit to it, when tweaked appropriately :)  Because I am home full time and Drew works 6 days a week, they have definitely taken a larger preference for me.  They still are excited when Drew comes home and are happy to play with him and be around him, but I am their first choice in general.  I think this is natural.  Levi is going to Drew with less fussing, though still would prefer me, he has learned Baba has some good things to offer too.
They have both been eating a few more things.  On vacation, they both ate a grilled cheese sandwich and BBQ (not together, although, that might be good).  They still eat noodles or rice for probably one meal a day.  Elizabeth is still less willing to eat vegetables and Levi less willing to eat as many fruits as Elizabeth.  They both had cake and ice cream for Levi's second birthday.  Levi tasted vanilla and chocolate and definitely preferred chocolate.  They prefer to drink from open cups and drink little from sippy cups.

Both have maintained very active routines.  They love the summer activities of the water table and baby pool, swinging and the trampoline.  They love to go on walks, though prefer to be strolled or carried for much of it.  Sometimes, Elizabeth will ride the tricycle for part of the walk when the Bigs are riding their bikes.  While I haven't seen as huge of gains in gross motor skills this month, they have definitely maintained the activities of skills that have been emerging.  And language has been progressing more this month.  They both still use some signs to communicate.  Levi will mimic much of what we say and repeat things we try to get him to say.  Elizabeth is doing that but also spontaneously saying words and some phrases.  Now, when we tell her something, she will respond "OK".  And by her tone, you can definitely tell if it's a good "OK" or a bad "OK" (sign, huff).  She will yell "Hello" to most people we pas on the street and get progressively louder if they do not answer her.  Her words now include: eat, drink, please, more, all done, love you "lub you", MAMA/BABA, No, outside, swing, water, noodles (but it always sounds like she's saying noodles too), beep beep, car, walk, shoes, diaper, potty, all of our names, sleep, walk, one-two-three, hi/bye, boat, my turn.  Levi has a lot of spontaneous jargon and imitates a lot of what we say but is not yet up to all that Elizabeth has started to say.

They are both so inquisitive.  Elizabeth continues to be independent and wanting to do things herself.  She can now get her diaper off and PJs on by herself.  She has some trouble getting shirts on and off but shoes are a breeze :)  She loves to brush her teeth, BY HERSELF, no help thanks, mom!  She likes to color and draw circles and attempt squares.

She very proudly drew this picture and while I wasn't looking drew on herself as well!  Look closely at the picture on the left, it's all the way up her arms.  She thought that was pretty funny.
 She loves to do puzzles and this month has started to sit long enough to look through books.  She get so excited and brings me one after another to look through and sometimes read most of.  Her favorite so far is "Never tease a weasel".  You can just see her eyes dart all over the pages as she takes in all the details.  When she is excited she yells "yeah" and jumps.  Levi also is showing an interest in books.  He doesn't sit quite as long as Elizabeth has started to and tolerates less reading but loves, loves the pictures and helping turn the pages. They both love to do the shape sorter, though Levi gets frustrated more quickly than Elizabeth and she is now able to put all the shapes in.  Levi has mastered the circle and square.  

Levi has been cutting his eye teeth and has had some cranky days!  The picture below is how I have coped some days.  I felt like I was always picking Levi up first because he fusses louder and throws a bigger fit to get to me.  So, I decided to wear them both.  And I put Elizabeth in front for the connecting and Levi was content to just be up with me.  


The bigs continue to seem to be adjusting really well. Evan has really stepped up.  He has always been good with little kids and I knew he would love them.  But he really initiates caring for them and watching out for them more than I thought he would.  And it shows in their relationship too because they come running to him!  Anna has also been a huge help, I think she gets frustrated sometimes because she wants to hold them more than they want, they get upset because they want me and she wants them to want her more than they do.  She's definitely a little mother and gives them instruction well and guides them in communicating what they want with patience.  Rebecca enjoys them and is frequently saying "Aww, aren't they just adorable".  She does get frustrated easily if they get in her things, which is a learning curve for everyone, we knew of course was coming.  I think she may take a Little pleasure in correcting them and having the chance to feel in charge since she's been the baby until now.  However, it's been made clear from the beginning she will always be the biological baby and nothing can change that.  Well, I suppose God could make that happen, but there's a REALLY good chance it's not going to be possible and definitely not in our plans :)

We have stayed home a lot it feels like, not really isolating ourselves, just so much to do around here and trying to keep to somewhat of a routine.  We have gone to a spray park, which all the kids loved.  I attempted to take them all to the dollar summer movies at the theater...... um, that won't happen again , heehee.  The littles and I spent our time out in the hallway.  I thought I had planned it right they might fall asleep during the show, no such luck.  

OK, I give up on trying to add the pictures from vacation.  That will have to be a separate post.  If I don't get this up soon, I won't finish...... more to say, little time to add :)  Life is good; busy, fulfilling, exhausting, draining, funny, frustrating and the best kind of wonderful.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

levi turns two!

24.5 pounds(10th%)*32 3/4" tall(15th%)*Head Circumference 19 1/4"(55%)





As of today, we have had this boy in our arms for 58 days.  We get to celebrate his second Birthday on earth and first Birthday with his forever family.  Randy Levi XiYi Ryan, you keep me on my toes!  I always know how you are feeling.  You aren't shy about your emotions.  You have claimed me as your Mama and nobody or nothing even comes close to soothing you like I do, I love that you have allowed me to be that for you. What a gift to my heart.  It is exhausting to be the only one who you want, ALL THE TIME.... but I have a lot of time to make up for!  And I signed up to do that, and I want to do that and I will do it until I fall on my face with exhaustion!  Then I'll get up and do it some more and fill you up with love.

You are all boy.  You have an infectious and mischevious laugh.  You are willing to try many new foods.  You sleep on your back with your arms and legs flung open wide and sometimes have your eyes cracked open.. that's a little creepy.  You play hard, sleep hard, laugh hard and cry hard.  You have little patience for waiting for what you want (hello two's) and you will fling yourself on the floor faster than I can catch you sometimes.  You are smart.  You are busy.  You love to move and make things happen.  You enjoy jumping and running and water play.  The look on your face and gestures when you are surprised by something crack me up EVERY TIME!  Your mouth in that big "O" and hands out to the sides and turned up as if to say "What was that"......oh I love getting to know you. You smell flowers with great expectation, even when there is no smell, you seem pleased that you knew what to do with it :)  And lately, my favorite, you grab my face and bring me eye to eye to you so you can tell me or express to me what you wanted to say, because I apparently didn't listen quickly enough!  You have my attention, you have my heart.














We celebrate you today Levi and love you more than I can put into words.

Jeremiah 29:11-13New International Version (NIV)

11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
I pray this verse in anticipation of your amazing future.  To watch what will unfold.  And to have you know my God....... not because I told you about Him, but because you expereince Him.